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GIRLS VS. WOMEN

Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans.
Women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits in.

Girls want to control the man in their life.
Women know that if he’s truly hers, he doesn’t need controlling.

Girls check you for not calling them.
Women are too busy to realize you hadn’t.

Girls try to put a man on lock by using sex.
Women know that it’s the sex of the mental kind that makes a man want to lock you down.

Girls fake-moan, lay there and take the stabbing.
Women say, stop, get up, get dressed and leave.

Girls are afraid to be alone.
Women revel in it, using it as a time for personal growth.

Girls ignore the good guys.
Women ignore the bad guys.

Girls make you come home.
Women make you want to come home.

Girls worry about not being good enough for their man.
Women know that they are good enough for any man.

Girls try to monopolize all their man’s time.
Women realize that a little bit of space makes the together time even more special.

Girls think a guy crying is weak.
Women offer their shoulder and a tissue.

Girls want to be spoiled and tell their man so.
Women show him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate without fear of losing his manhood.

Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.
Women know that, that was just one man.

Girls fall in love, chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, ignoring all signs.
Women know that sometimes the one you love, don’t always love you back and move on without bitterness.

Girls will read this and get an attitude.
Women will read this and pass it on to other grown women!!!

posted about 9 years ago
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This is really great…do you mind if I use it? Unless it was original from you, then of course I wouldn’t want to steal

posted about 9 years ago
 
SelfishStyle
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SelfishStyle

Feel free, I got it from a friend not sure where she found it…pass it on!

posted about 9 years ago
 
ukiuki88
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ukiuki88

this reminds me of that book, “why men love bitches”. lol. reading this, it has a lot of really great advice. :)

posted about 9 years ago
 
taralily
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taralily

I really really like this… I won’t lie, some of the things on the list I’m more of a girl than a woman. I am always trying to move forward though :)

posted about 9 years ago
 
nay_myquel
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nay_myquel

yea..im just becomin a woman..i have to..im a new mom

posted about 9 years ago
 
MurasakiNeko
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MurasakiNeko

This is excellent. I feel like I see a lot of men vs. boys stuff like this, but there’s definitely a difference between a “girl” and a mature woman, too.

posted about 9 years ago
 
Kyrakat
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Kyrakat

This is a great reminder for me to be more “women” than whiny “girl” in my relationship. Thanks for the wake up call.

posted about 9 years ago
 
hadelicious
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hadelicious

A great read, definitely made me realise that I’m indeed becoming a woman. Will pass it on ;)

posted about 9 years ago
 
pandaphilia
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pandaphilia

i like having a girlish attitude toward life but i think my overlying dreams and goals are quite womanly. great post, definite thing to keep in mind

posted about 9 years ago
 
maryintheocean
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maryintheocean

i love this, it seems like a good read to be inspired by!
and reminds me of samantha off of sex and the city

posted about 9 years ago
 
dorotron
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dorotron

some of the things about “girls” are still very present in “women’s” lives…

confidence comes with age, but some women struggle with it.

posted about 9 years ago
 
opfiend
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opfiend

Put a smile on my face!

posted about 9 years ago
 
Bennie52491
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Bennie52491

I LOVE THIS POEM :D

posted about 9 years ago
 
hitomineko
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hitomineko

mm don’t totally agree with everything in the poem

posted about 9 years ago
 
Jesssyes
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Jesssyes

so true.

posted about 9 years ago
 
MarieMarieMarie
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MarieMarieMarie

A lot of this stuff is true for a lot of girls and women- and all of it is humorous…but why is every single statement about how we relate to men? why no statements about how we are in school, at our jobs, how we relate to our families, or our girlfriends? It seems to imply that the most important way a female’s maturity can be measured is by her interactions with males.

posted about 9 years ago
 
whoawhoaworld
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whoawhoaworld

I love this! A lot of grown women….girls…need to realize this and get the self respect they deserve. BE A WOMAN :)

posted about 9 years ago
 
hannahsmithy
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hannahsmithy

I agree with MarieMarieMarie..though she put it much more eloquently than I could have.

posted over 8 years ago
 
SilviaTirado
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SilviaTirado

WOMEN! girls are wack

posted over 8 years ago
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